Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my concerns. See if there is any offensive way in me; lead me in the everlasting way. – Psalm 139:23-24
John chapter 4 tells the story of the woman at the well and her encounter with the Messiah. It is a fascinating story on so many fronts, especially given the religious and cultural norms of the time.
After a small bit of chit-chat about water and thirst, the discussion suddenly gets very serious when Jesus tells her to go get her husband. Admitting that she didn’t have a husband, Jesus seems to get rather brutal and appears insensitive when he reveals her marital status and history.
Couldn’t Jesus have been more tactful? Why be so blunt about it? If it had been me, I would have approached it more gracefully, I think.
But Jesus knew this woman, and he loved her. So, he did what was best for her: he went straight to the source of her thirst. Her life had been filled with inconsistencies, rejection, loss of hope and love, perhaps betrayal, a life filled with shame and probably no small helping of guilt. She was thirsty, but all the things she had tried have been disappointments.
You see, we have to be made to confront ourselves and our need honestly. It isn’t until we recognize the truth about our thirst that Jesus can help us. He gave the woman dignity and something that could fill the aching hole in her soul.
Here’s another beautiful truth: not only did it help her, but many in the village found their thirst cured, too.
If it seems that Jesus is being too hard and insensitive with you, it could be because you’ve not yet honestly been forced to confront the truth about yourself yet. Let me encourage you to pray for the Spirit to search your heart to reveal what is unclean and needs to be confessed and forgiven. It is only then that you can find the Living Water that can quench your thirst forever.
PRAYER: Lord, open our hearts and reveal to us the truth that we need to acknowledge so that which we so long for can be found! In Jesus’ name, Amen.
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