DayBreaks for 08/07/12 – Lessons a Dog Taught Me
FROM THE ARCHIVES: 08/08/2002
Lesson: The friendship of the world is a fickle thing.
For those of you who have been readers of DayBreaks for some time, you are probably familiar with an on-going string of DayBreaks about lessons my dog has taught me. Well, today there’s a different twist on this story. While on a visit to Millersburg, PA to see some friends, a different dog taught me another lesson about life. (I guess maybe it just goes to show that you can teach an old dog – me – new things!)
The dog in question, named Indy, is a 100-pound, 2-year old Newfoundland. Big dog. When this dog barks, the whole world listens (or more accurately, they cover their ears!) I had met Indy the evening before after arriving in Millersburg from Connecticut where I was visiting relatives. I had been forewarned about this dog – that I should just ignore her and let her come to make friends with me on her own terms. (No one explained how you ignore a 100-pound mini-black bear walking around the front room!) So, being the clever fellow I am, I heeded the advice and just ignored this dog as she got used to the idea that I was there. Before too long, she came over to the couch where I was sitting, climbed up next to me and offered her paw in a friendly handshake. (Made my heart smile!!!) I had bonded with yet another dog.
Or so I thought. The next morning, we went to see the National Civil War Museum in Harrisburg, PA. We stopped after our excursion for a bit of lunch, and when we returned home, my wife walked into the house and straight up to the dog (who was behind a flimsy plastic gate “restraining” her in the kitchen area) and patted the dog on the head. So, not to be outdone, I walked right up behind her, held out my hand to pet the dog who was looking straight into my eyes. With my hand about 3 inches from her mouth, she suddenly started to bark angrily, snarl wickedly and get very agitated. In the fastest movement in human history, my hand pulled back and I turned around and walked away. (I was very glad the dog has never challenged that flimsy little gate with her 100-pound bulk!)
As I reflected on the situation later, I realized I’d made a mistake. I had assumed the dog was my friend. And I also realized that friendship with the world is a fickle thing. The world may act like it loves us in one moment, but turn violently on us the second. It was no different for Jesus – he entered Jerusalem to cries of “Hosanna! Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord!” to “Crucify him! Crucify him! We have no king but Caesar!”
The world and all that it offers us runs hot and cold. It attracts us, makes us think that we are friends, but at the first opportunity – it turns on us. That is not friendship. That is why God’s friendship is so important. His friendship isn’t hot and cold, on and off, here today and gone tomorrow. God’s love is always HOT – His friendship never wavers (not even when we have hurt Him for the 100th time in a given day). When will we ever learn that the truest friend that there can ever be is God – and God alone? Even our best friends on earth will fail us and prove fickle.
Need friendship? God needs friendship, too, and He wants to be your friend. And His love abides forever!
James 4:4 – “You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world is hatred toward God? Anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.”
Deut. 31:6 – “Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the LORD your God goes with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you.”
PRAYER: We desperately want to have friends, Lord, but we often look in the wrong place and mistake the world’s attention for friendship. Let us not sell our souls for what isn’t real friendship, or for any friendship that we cannot take into eternity with us! In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Copyright 2012 by Galen C. Dalrymple.
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