DayBreaks for 8/22/16 – Misunderstanding Life – and the Father


DayBreaks for 8/22/16 – Misunderstanding Life – and the Father

There is no greater example of the gospel than that found in Luke 15 where Jesus tells three stories: the lost sheep, the lost coin…and the “prodigal son” story (and that’s a huge misnomer!) So, my dear, dear friend…this is a story for you…

Luke 15:17-20 (ESV) – But when he came to himself, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired servants have more than enough bread, but I perish here with hunger! I will arise and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and before you. I am no longer worthy to be called your son. Treat me as one of your hired servants.”’ And he arose and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.

Our lead teacher (Randy) has been doing a series on this chapter and it has been so rich! Sunday, he spoke about this son – this younger, prideful, rebellious son and about his return home. There were some key points that I wanted to share from his message because they blessed me and I think they’ll bless you, too.

FIRST: this young, headstrong and inconsiderate man thought that in license there would be freedom. He wanted to cast off the restraints of living in the presence of the father, thinking that if he could only go and do what he wanted, to be in charge and control of his own life, that he could find happiness. But, as Randy noted, “License always ends in bondage.” We think that the lack of restraints is what will not only bring us joy, but bring us freedom. It won’t. It ends in bondage. License doesn’t set you free – the Truth is what sets us free!

SECOND: the son totally misunderstood the father. He is hoping against hope to be welcome to serve as a hired hand in the father’s house and business. That’s all he could aspire to, all he could imagine after what he’d done to his father. But this just shows how badly he misunderstood the father. There is no way that the father would take his son back as a hired hand! No! This son was treated to the father’s very own rob, to shoes for his feet, a ring for his hand…but far more than that, what was the greatest gift of the father was his embrace and kiss. Fathers don’t embrace and kiss hired hands…but they do their sons and daughters. This son had no idea how much he was loved by the father until the embrace and kiss took place!

THIRD: perhaps most importantly – and I hope you don’t miss this one – the embrace and kiss are NOT given to the son because he came home.  They are given because he was a son…a child so deeply loved by the father that no other response from the father was even possible! The embrace and kiss had to be given because the father couldn’t not constrain his love.

In order to come home, we have to believe in the love of the father. The young man believed – or rather hoped – that there was some compassion in the heart of his dad.  He just didn’t know the love that was in the father’s heart.

And so it is with you and me. We won’t come home (not to a physical or metaphysical place) but into the relationship of the Father’s person, unless we begin to believe He loves us. And when we make the first step, oh sweet joy! – the Father runs to us, encircles us with His almighty arms, and gives us a “welcome home” kiss!

Are you away from “home”, thinking that maybe if you’re super lucky, that the Father might let you inhabit the darkest corner of heaven as a sweeper of the golden street? Forget it! You will be welcomed as a beloved child – and the greatest celebration of all eternity will begin – and never end!

PRAYER: Oh, Father, Father, Father! Your love is so overwhelming! Help us believe that You love us like this – even more than this – and that we are welcome in the home of Your embrace forever! In the name of Christ Jesus, our Lord, Amen. 

Copyright 2016, Galen C. Dalrymple. All rights reserved.


DayBreaks for 8/1/16 – The Journey of Two Brothers

“The Prodigal Son”, by G.P. Paltz (notice the older brother in the black darkness in the background behind the sheep)

DayBreaks for 8/01/16 – The Journey of Two Brothers

Of all the parables in the Bible, the story known as the Prodigal Son on Luke 15 is by far my favorite. It speaks to me at such a visceral level. Perhaps that’s why I appreciated this Sunday’s message so much. I’m not going to try to re-deliver the sermon to you, but at the end, the key question the teacher posed to us was simply this: “Which brother are you?”

One brother was (at least in the beginning of the story) a prideful rebel. Prideful rebels are deceived by the allure of the world and all it offers, thinking about themselves and acting as if they are the center of the universe. It’s all about their wants and wishes and desires.

The other brother was the religious moralist. He felt he’d done everything right and was therefore better than his prideful rebel younger brother.

Which am I? Well, let me see…

When I was younger, I was much more like the religious moralist. I grew up in a legalistic church where you didn’t dare sin or you could expect the immediate and unremitting wrath of God to descend upon you. One of the common debates was “If a believer sins and dies before they can ask forgiveness, will they go to heaven?” And so, in my zealous youth, I felt pretty self-righteous (most of the time). So in my younger years, I would have been the older brother, the religious moralist who didn’t really feel that God would have to stoop very low at all to lift me and carry me through the pearly gates.

Then, I seemed to move in mid-life, into being more like the prideful rebel. I began to think about all the things I’d missed in my younger years because I was so straight-laced and circumspect. The world and its allure pressed in on me and Satan whispered into my ear about all that I’d not experienced, all those things that looked so fun and fulfilling. I never did go really wild at all (my legalistic upbringing made that impossible for me), but I became ever more conscious that I wasn’t such a good person after all – even if I gave the outward appearance of being one. So, I’d become like the younger brother at least in my mind, if not in my actions.

Then, like the younger brother, I “came to my senses” and realized that my life was not where it needed to be. I also came to realize that it never would be what it needed to be. That is where I find myself today. 

So my answer to the question “Which brother are you?” is simply this: I am both. I have been both. I suspect that I will continue to be both. Why? Because I have moments of being a religious moralist when I compare myself to others who are prideful rebels, and I have moments of bring a prideful rebel when I leave God out of my thoughts.

How do I feel about being both? I think that it is the perspective of the years and the tireless work of the Spirit that has brought me to this point. This point is the point of grace and nothing more: realizing how sinful I am whether or not at the moment I am the religious moralist (older brother) or the prideful rebel (younger brother). I just flat out desperately need Jesus and always will!

I guess another way of thinking about it is that I am “every man”…for I suspect each of us has both the prideful rebel and religious moralist in us.

One more key point that I’d heard for the first time today: in the culture of the day when this parable was spoken, the older son would have been honor bound to go out searching for the younger brother until he’d found him and brought him “home”. For all of us who are frequently religious moralists, that should pin us to the wall in repentance…for all too often our attitude toward the prideful rebel is to avoid them, shun them and stay as far away from them as possible. In Jesus’ parable (which was Jesus’ own self-defense of his ministry to teach the Pharisees and scribes why he was hanging out with the tax collectors and sinners), the very point was that the religious moralists (Pharisees/scribes) were angry with Jesus for being with the prideful rebels. Religious moralists have a tendency to not only be angry, but jealous in their hearts of the experiences of the prideful sinner (we get that sense from the older brother’s words in the story.) Jesus’ point is clear: you have been blessed with the truth and therefore you have obligations to the prideful rebels. Rather than spitting on them with your words and actions, go out and bring them home!  If that doesn’t give us all pause as Christians when we see the iniquity of the prideful rebels around us, shame on us. For religious moralists may be farther from the kingdom than the prideful rebel will ever be.

Thank God for His grace!

PRAYER: Lord, I can look back from the perspective of nearly 6-1/2 decades and see how desperately I needed you, and need you, to save me. I will be eternally grateful for the fact that you ran to greet me when I’d been far away and that you have always been with me and that all you have is now mine through Christ Jesus. Keep us from willful rebellion and from religious and moral pride…and let us always be filled with the deepest appreciation for teaching us our true nature and need for you! In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Copyright 2016, Galen C. Dalrymple. All rights reserved.

From the DayBreaks archive, July 2006:


DayBreaks for 7/13/12 – The Day Jesus Met the Lawyer

DayBreaks for 7/13/16 – The Day Jesus Met the Lawyer

The parable of the Good Samaritan arises out of a discussion between Jesus and a Pharisee. Please understand that the Pharisees were more than just religious folk – they were the lawyers of their time, so here we see a religious lawyer asking Jesus a question on the nature of the law. Luke sets the stage this way: Behold a lawyer stood up to put him to the test.

Do you get it? It’s a trick question! I am sure it’s not the first time and won’t be the last time that a lawyer poses a trick question. It was the kind of question in which any kind of an answer would pose still further problems (such as the proverbial “Have you stopped kicking your dog yet?” question – there is no way to succeed with a question phrased in that way.) So, here’s the test question: Teacher, what must I do to inherit eternal life. Now right away we know that this man was a Pharisee, because the Pharisees believed in eternal life and the Sadducees did not. Jesus could tell that this man was an astute student of the law so he asked him: What is written? In other words, use your own mind to discern the essence of the law. Jesus, like a good discussion leader, throws the question right back in his lap.

The lawyer has a good answer. He said: You shall love the Lord your God with all of your heart and soul and mind and strength and you shall love your neighbor as yourself. This was a direct quote from Deuteronomy 6. It was part of the Shema, a confession regularly made in Jewish worship. Jesus says: “Excellent. You are correct.” If he were a teacher I suppose he would have said: “You get A+.” Jesus is saying he has no issue with that answer. Do this and you shall live. You have not only penetrated to the essence of the law but you have worded it succinctly. 

The question had been asked and the answer given. You would think that the man would be pleased and go home. But lawyers are never happy. A lawyer’s responsibility is to define the limits of liability. “But he, desiring to justify himself, asked ‘Who is my neighbor.'” In other words, where does my responsibility stop? Who exactly am I responsible for?”

Therein is a clue to the heart of a Pharisee (including modern-day Christian Pharisee’s): we want to know how far we are required to go, how much (or more properly, how little) is required of us. It is an indicator of a heart that isn’t totally sold out to God or His will.

When God has asked you for something such as obedience to His word and commands, do you in your mind and heart start a lawyerly discussion with God to press the issue to know how far you really have to go in obedience? If so, that may be an indicator that you’d be a good lawyer…and a Pharisee.

We are all pharisaical from time to time, but if we find ourselves asking these kind of defining questions instead of simply saying, “Yes, Lord and Master!” we may be much bigger Pharisees than we want to believe.

PRAYER: Jesus, I know there are parts of my life where I want to get away with doing as little as I can in response to your leading. Help me be more fully sold out to you and less of a Pharisee! In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Copyright 2016, Galen C. Dalrymple. All rights reserved.